日々ざわついた空気が続いています。 自分には関係ないかなと思っていた方も、何かしら影響が出ている毎日ですよね。 婚活業界も例外なく影響を受けております。ハチドリでも3月に開催予定のイベントが中止・・・ お見合い中止は今のところないのですが、デートが延期になったりという報告が会員さんからちらほらときておりました。 週末デートの会員さんからこんな相談が。 「お相手との初デートなのですが、会社もテレワークになったいま病気になるわけにはいかず。でもデートをキャンセルしてライバルにも差がつくのが嫌だし。どうしたらいいでしょう？」 そうなんです！婚活（特に1対1の真剣交際になる仮交際の間は）はつねにライバルを意識しておかないといけない活動なのです。 お見合いをしたり、仮交際（友達以上恋人未満な状態）は何人とでもできるのがルール。 ということは、お相手だって自分意外の方とデートしている状態が普通なのです。 そこで関係を深めて、お相手から選ばれて初めて選ぶ権利が出てくるのが婚活。 素晴らしいシステムのお陰で、どんどんお見合いができてきちんとした出会いが多い分、お付き合いに関してはとてもシビアです。 会員さんへ良くアドバイスするのは「とにかく会う回数を増やすこと！！」 3時間のゆったりディナーデートを月に1回するより、1時間のお茶デートを毎週する方が2人の関係は育ちます。 ハチドリの卒業生を見ていても、毎日連絡ができて週に1度（以上！）デートできてる人だけが結果を残しておられます。 とはえいこの時期、いろいろ心配で…ということなら広々としたスペースでお茶を飲んだ後、公園でお散歩がおすすめ♪ 例え
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